this one especially hit home as I'm constantly finding myself trying to tow the line between "making sure my kids understand the word no" and "not making them scared to test the line of no but rather to learn to respect it."
I think many people in my generation (b 1981) were trained out of fear of punishment, not out of respect for boundaries and boundary setters, and this podcast really helped me see that!
this one especially hit home as I'm constantly finding myself trying to tow the line between "making sure my kids understand the word no" and "not making them scared to test the line of no but rather to learn to respect it."
I think many people in my generation (b 1981) were trained out of fear of punishment, not out of respect for boundaries and boundary setters, and this podcast really helped me see that!